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Sign up for our newsletters Subscribe. All of my friends have always been gay men, like me, so I find this strange. I don't have any problem with women, but I don't hang out with any women, and neither do most of my friends. I'm gay and have been dating a guy for ten months. He's great overall, and I would say for the 223 single shot rifles part we both want it to work.

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All of his friends are straight, and almost all of them are women. He makes dinner plans for us with his straight friends almost every week, and I female friends hang with me and bear it.

They're always old coworkers, female friends hang with me the whole conversation is them talking about old times or straighty talk about their sexy maid seattle. It's incredibly boring. He's met my friends, and he likes some of them but dislikes.

It's obvious that he is not comfortable relating to gay men, generally speaking. He does not seem knowledgeable about gay history or culture. For example, he strongly dislikes drag queens and never goes to gay bars. There is one woman in particular he makes dinner for every Friday night. It's a standing date that he's only occasionally been flexible about changing to accommodate plans for the two of us. Now he's planning a weeklong vacation with. When he first mentioned this trip, he asked if I would want to spend a week camping.

I said no, because I don't like camping.

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He immediately went forward with planning it with. I'm pretty sure the two of them had already hatched this plan, and I don't think he ever really wanted me to go.

He does other weird things too, like belonging to a strange new age church, which is definitely at odds with my strongly held anti-religious views. The fact that I didn't like it just turned into a seemingly unsolvable problem between us.

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Mr says I'm not being "supportive. How can I not let our differences completely destroy the relationship? Differences don't have to destroy a relationship. Differences can actually enhance and help sustain a relationship. But for differences female friends hang with me have that effect, HOMO, both partners have to appreciate each other for their differences.

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Contempt, Gottman argues, destroys whatever bonds hold a couple. You've been together only ten months, HOMO, and you're not married, but it sounds like contempt has already overwhelmed your relationship. It's not just that you dislike his friends; you're contemptuous of. It's not just that you don't share his spiritual beliefs; you're contemptuous of. It's not just that his gayness is expressed in a different-than-yours-but-still-perfectly-valid way; you're contemptuous of him as a gay man.

Because he doesn't watch Drag Race or hang out in gay bars. Because he's got a lot of female friends hang with me friends. Because he's happy to sit and talk with his friends about their kids. There's nothing "straighty" about kid conversations. Gay parents take part in female friends hang with me conversations.

And while we're in this parenthesis: I can't understand why anyone would waste their time actively disliking drag queens. But being a gay male correlates more strongly with liking dick than it does with liking drag. This ladies seeking sex tonight Obion might work if you were capable of appreciating the areas where you two overlap—your shared interests including female friends hang with me shared interest in each other —and content to let him female friends hang with me off and enjoy his friends, his new age church, and his standing Friday-night dinner date.

You're missing the "mutual respect" part—and where this formula is concerned, HOMO, two out of three ain't.

Here's how it might look if you could appreciate your differences: You'd do the things you enjoy doing together—like, say, each other—but on Friday nights, he makes dinner for his bestie and you hit the gay bars with your gay friends and catch a drag.

You would go on vacations together, but once in a while he'd go on vacation with one of his "straighty" friends, and once in a while you'd go on vacation with your gay friends. On Sundays, he'd go to female friends hang with me church and you'd female friends hang with me in or binge-watch Pose. You'd be happy to let him be him, and he'd be happy to let you be you—and together the two of you would add up to an interesting, harmonious, compelling "we.

I have lots of straight friends, and I'm a parent, and sometimes I talk with other parents about our children, and I rarely go to gay bars, and I haven't gotten around to watching Pose yet, or the most recent season of Drag Racefor that matter.

It's devastating to learn, after all these years and all those dicks, that I'm terrible at being gay. If a straight person told you, "I don't have any problem with gay men, but I don't hang out with any gay men, and neither flirting with an introvert most of my friends," you'd think they had a problem with gay men, right? I've been in an on-again, off-again relationship for the past four years.

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